self-denial | AirMaria.com https://dev.airmaria.com Breathe Freely Wed, 13 Mar 2019 14:27:25 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 https://airmaria.s3.amazonaws.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/28143228/amicon-r-100x100.png self-denial | AirMaria.com https://dev.airmaria.com 32 32 St. Therese on Self-denial https://dev.airmaria.com/2010/02/24/st-therese-on-self-denial/ Wed, 24 Feb 2010 20:00:55 +0000 http://airmaria.com/?p=10173 Ave Maria Mediations   One more point, so that we may have a perfectly clear idea of Saint Therese’s self-denial. Generally speaking we have a too material, too external idea of self-denial; we...

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One more point, so that we may have a perfectly clear idea of Saint Therese’s self-denial. Generally speaking we have a too material, too external idea of self-denial; we almost always picture self-denial under the form of privation, as the sacrifice of something material, or again as some external mortification. And so we tire ourselves out looking for something to give up instead of denying ourselves always and in everything.   

Self-denial is primarily and often solely something interior and spiritual; it is in no way synonymous with mortification, with privation. Even when there is no mortification, there ought always to be self-denial. Self-­denial is simply the disposition of the soul to live for self in nothing, a sincere and constant disposition, a fixed determination to turn the soul from its natural tendency to make self the centre of its life, a fixed determination not to think of self, to put self on one side. 

Saint Therese’s self-denial was often of this kind, wholly interior; the not doing something, the repressing of a natural eagerness, of a too vehement desire, of over-curiosity, of a feeling of antipathy, of feelings of complacency or gratification. Outwardly these little sacrifices were often imperceptible. Even when expressed by an exterior and material sacrifice, it was in the interior turning away from self, the interior turning to God, that they primarily consisted. The turning of the heart to God, and so, away from self: that is self-­denial.

If this interior movement is sincere, the exterior and material detachment will correspond to it when the occasion arises, but the exterior part is far from being the whole, the essential part of it. The essential part is the glance of the heart turned, not to self, but to God.

We can now see why Therese’s care not to miss any opportunity of little sacrifices, did not result, with her, in preoccupation or anxiety, constraint or scrupulosity, no more than did her desire to please God her Father in all things. Joyfully she goes on her way borne up by her all-absorbing desire. The very sincerity, the integrity of her desire to please God, tells her when- in this or that- there would be a slight self-satisfaction, and that she can please God by sacrificing it to Him. She makes her little sacrifice and passes on. A moment later a fresh opportunity comes, and she makes another and she goes on, freely, in simplicity. She is sincere in her desire to do everything to please God. That is all.

Her little sacrifices-of which she misses no opportunity-are but the spontaneous fruit of her ever watchful desire to love. There is no anxiety, no uneasiness, no narrowness, no restless preoccupation with self, no constraint of the heart, on the contrary, the heart is enlarged, the soul expands, there is joy; the joy of giving which is one with the joy of loving.

Pere Liagre C.S.Sp.

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Mar 07 – Homily – Fr Elias: Why we Pray and Fast https://dev.airmaria.com/2014/03/07/mar-07-homily-fr-elias-why-we-pray-and-fast/ Fri, 07 Mar 2014 12:24:04 +0000 http://airmaria.com/2014/03/07/mar-07-homily-fr-elias-why-we-pray-and-fast/ Homily #140307b ( 00min) Play – Fr. Elias on why Christians pray and fast as compared to non-Christians and Buddhists. We focus on love of God as opposed some sort of self-discipline or...

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Homily #140307b ( 00min) Play – Fr. Elias on why Christians pray and fast as compared to non-Christians and Buddhists. We focus on love of God as opposed some sort of self-discipline or self-denial as an end to itself. Our goal is to put aside things in order to focus on God.
Ave Maria!
Mass: Friday after Ash Wednesday – Wkdy – Form: OF
Readings: 
1st: isa 58:1-9
Resp: psa 51:3-4, 5-6, 18-19
Gsp: mat 9:14-15

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May 28 – Homily – Fr Peter: Preparing With Penance https://dev.airmaria.com/2016/05/28/may-28-homily-fr-peter-preparing-with-penance/ Sat, 28 May 2016 10:58:37 +0000 http://dev.airmaria.com/2016/05/28/may-28-homily-fr-peter-preparing-with-penance/ St. Mariana of Paredes was a Third Order Franciscan who reminds us that penance makes it possible for us to prepare for things of heaven. By her extraordinary mortifications in reparation for the...

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St. Mariana of Paredes was a Third Order Franciscan who reminds us that penance makes it possible for us to prepare for things of heaven. By her extraordinary mortifications in reparation for the sins of others, she teaches us the value of self-denial.
Ave Maria!

Mass: St. Mariana of Jesus de Paredes – Opt Mem
Readings: Saturday 8th Week of Ordinary Time
1st: jud 1:17, 20-25
Resp: psa 63:2, 3-4, 5-6 0
Gsp: mar 11:27-33

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Nov 28 – Homily – Fr Alan: St. James of the Marches – Penitent, Preacher, Prophet https://dev.airmaria.com/2017/11/28/nov-28-homily-fr-alan-st-james-of-the-marches-penitent-preacher-prophet/ Tue, 28 Nov 2017 12:50:03 +0000 http://dev.airmaria.com/2017/11/28/nov-28-homily-fr-alan-st-james-of-the-marches-penitent-preacher-prophet/   This illustrious Franciscan preacher (b. 1391, d. 1476) converted multitudes over the course of his long ministry throughout most of Christendom. His life is a testimony to the saving power of the...

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This illustrious Franciscan preacher (b. 1391, d. 1476) converted multitudes over the course of his long ministry throughout most of Christendom. His life is a testimony to the saving power of the holy Word of God preached by one who puts it into practice.

Ave Maria!

Mass: St. James of the March – Mem

Readings: 
1st: Sir 45:1-5
Resp: Ps 16:1-2, 5-6, 7-8, 11
Gsp: Lk 10:1-9

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That Where I Am, You Also May Be – May 10 – Homily – Fr Alan https://dev.airmaria.com/2018/05/10/that-where-i-am-you-also-may-be-may-10-homily-fr-alan/ Thu, 10 May 2018 13:17:21 +0000 http://dev.airmaria.com/2018/05/10/that-where-i-am-you-also-may-be-may-10-homily-fr-alan/   For the homily on Ascension Thursday (May 10), Fr. Alan gives the homily at New Bedford on the hope we have in following Christ in this earthly life, to be with him...

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For the homily on Ascension Thursday (May 10), Fr. Alan gives the homily at New Bedford on the hope we have in following Christ in this earthly life, to be with him in glory in the next.

Ave Maria!

Mass: Ascension of the Lord Thursday – Solemnity

Readings: 
1st: Act 1:1-11
Resp: Ps 47:2-3, 6-7, 8-9
2nd: Eph 1:17-23
Gsp: Mk 16:15-20

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Transfiguration: A Flash of Future Glory – Aug 06 – Homily – Fr Alan https://dev.airmaria.com/2018/08/06/transfiguration-a-flash-of-future-glory-aug-06-homily-fr-alan/ Mon, 06 Aug 2018 12:51:08 +0000 http://dev.airmaria.com/2018/08/06/transfiguration-a-flash-of-future-glory-aug-06-homily-fr-alan/   On the Feast of the Transfiguration of the Lord (Aug 06), Fr. Alan gives the homily on how the Transfiguration served as a “flash forward” to the future glory of the Risen...

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On the Feast of the Transfiguration of the Lord (Aug 06), Fr. Alan gives the homily on how the Transfiguration served as a “flash forward” to the future glory of the Risen Christ, and to the same glory that awaits us if we follow Christ, denying our self and carrying our Cross in this life.

Considering the Transfiguration in the context of the whole Gospel gives an insight into our own Christian experience as one of persevering through trials, sustained by the hope and faith in the Resurrection.

Ave Maria!

Mass: Transfiguration of the Lord – Feast

Readings: 
1st: Dn 7:9-10, 13-14
Resp: Ps 97:1-2, 5-6, 9
2nd: 2 Pt 1:16-19
Gsp: Mk 9:2-10

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Francis’ Stigmata, “Love Crucified” – Sep 17 – Homily – Fr Alan https://dev.airmaria.com/2018/09/17/francis-stigmata-love-crucified-sep-17-homily-fr-alan/ Mon, 17 Sep 2018 13:33:23 +0000 http://dev.airmaria.com/2018/09/17/francis-stigmata-love-crucified-sep-17-homily-fr-alan/   In the homily for the Feast of the Stigmatization of St. Francis of Assisi (Sep 17), Fr. Alan explains the stigmata of St. Francis as “love crucified” (O’Brien), given as a sign...

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In the homily for the Feast of the Stigmatization of St. Francis of Assisi (Sep 17), Fr. Alan explains the stigmata of St. Francis as “love crucified” (O’Brien), given as a sign for us, confirming the spirituality of St. Francis as a faithful model for all Christians.

As disciples of Christ, charity for Our Lord impels us to also deny ourselves and to embrace the cross, seeking metaphorical crucifixion of the flesh for the sake of love, after the example of St. Francis.

“Through his prayers may we be made conformable to the death of [Our Lord] and thus share also in His resurrection” (Collect for the Mass).

Ave Maria!

Mass: Stigmata of St. Francis – Feast

Readings: 
1st: Gal 6:14-18
Resp: Gal 2:16, 20
Gsp: Lk 9:23-26

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The title of this homily is inspired by the title of the chapter on the Stigmatization in the biography on St. Francis by Fr. Isidore O’Brien, O. F. M., Francis of Assisi: Mirror of Christ (Franciscan Herald Press, Chicago, 1978 [6th ed.]).

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Church in Crisis Needs Chastity and Fortitude – Feb 05 – Homily – Fr Matthias https://dev.airmaria.com/2019/02/05/church-in-crisis-needs-chastity-and-fortitude-feb-05-homily-fr-matthias/ Tue, 05 Feb 2019 15:07:06 +0000 http://dev.airmaria.com/2019/02/05/church-in-crisis-needs-chastity-and-fortitude-feb-05-homily-fr-matthias/   In the homily for the memorial of St. Agatha (Virgin and Martyr, Feb 05), Fr. Matthias explains how the virtue of chastity combined with the self-sacrificial love of martyrdom, as exemplified by...

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In the homily for the memorial of St. Agatha (Virgin and Martyr, Feb 05), Fr. Matthias explains how the virtue of chastity combined with the self-sacrificial love of martyrdom, as exemplified by St. Agatha, is what the Church needs today. Deflecting attention from the problem of unchastity and blaming the present crisis on “clericalism” may very well be itself an expression of clericalism. The crisis will go unresolved until the root cause is acknowledged: lack of virtue, particularly the virtues of chastity and fortitude.

Ave Maria!

Mass: St. Agatha – Mem

Readings: Tuesday 4th Week of Ordinary Time
1st: Heb 12:1-4
Resp: Ps 22:26-27, 28, 30, 31-32
Gsp: Mk 5:21-43

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3 Convenient Categories of Lenten Resolutions – Mar 05 – Homily – Fr Matthias https://dev.airmaria.com/2019/03/05/3-convenient-categories-of-lenten-resolutions-mar-05-homily-fr-matthias/ Tue, 05 Mar 2019 14:05:03 +0000 http://dev.airmaria.com/2019/03/05/3-convenient-categories-of-lenten-resolutions-mar-05-homily-fr-matthias/   After a brief overview of the life of the penitential Franciscan Saint John Joseph of the Cross (priest of the Alcantaran reform, Mar 05), Fr. Matthias offers guidance for making an effective...

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After a brief overview of the life of the penitential Franciscan Saint John Joseph of the Cross (priest of the Alcantaran reform, Mar 05), Fr. Matthias offers guidance for making an effective and meritorious Lenten resolution (4:27). Identifying the main principle to observe, he offers three practical categories to choose from which are readily available in the life of everyone.

It is not necessary to find some creative penance in order to make this Lent a most spiritually fruitful time or penance, purification, and growth in love of the Lord, as life offers plenty of ready-made possibilities for meaningful and meritorious mortification.

Ave Maria!

Mass: St. John Joseph of the Cross

Readings: Tuesday 8th Week of Ordinary Time
1st: Sir 35:1-12
Resp: Ps 50:5-6, 7-8, 14, 23
Gsp: Mk 10:28-31

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Lenten Prayer for TRUE DEVOTION – Mar 13 – Homily – Fr Matthias https://dev.airmaria.com/2019/03/13/lenten-prayer-for-true-devotion-mar-13-homily-fr-matthias/ Wed, 13 Mar 2019 13:04:49 +0000 http://dev.airmaria.com/2019/03/13/lenten-prayer-for-true-devotion-mar-13-homily-fr-matthias/   Fr. Matthias focuses on the opening prayer (Collect) of today’s Mass (Wednesday 1st Week of Lent, Mar 13), and draws out the practical implications of this Lenten prayer: “Look kindly, Lord, we...

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Fr. Matthias focuses on the opening prayer (Collect) of today’s Mass (Wednesday 1st Week of Lent, Mar 13), and draws out the practical implications of this Lenten prayer: “Look kindly, Lord, we pray, on the devotion of your people, that those who by self-denial are restrained in body may by the fruit of good works be renewed in mind.” The Lord inspires us to pray this way because He wants to give us that for which He instructs us to ask: true and lasting devotion expressed in consistent and prompt service of the Lord.

Ave Maria!

Mass: Wednesday 1st Week of Lent – Wkdy

Readings: 
1st: Jn 3:1-10
Resp: Ps 51:3-4, 12-13, 18-19
Gsp: Lk 11:29-32

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